競爭

越嚟越感受家長之間既比較, 也感受到小朋友既壓力, 好難講佢地開唔開心, 我都唔識講, 因為大部分小朋友都生活喺咁既情況, 起碼喺香港呢個絕對係大趨勢, 但係感覺到家長對每個小朋友既學業都好大期望, 必須要考入名氣高排名高的學校, 就算離家好遠, 來回超過1個鐘都覺得唔係大問題, 天天都要上興趣班, 甚至幼稚園都要補習, 非常常見~

一直提醒自己, 要俾一個開心充滿愛既家庭環境俾兩個女, 學業成綪會追求進步, 但不會俾太大壓力, 搞到佢地身心疲累, 唔夠瞓, 冇乜時間玩, 甚至唔開心, 或者影響大家既關係~

始終, 為何要生兒育女, 要倒模出另一個名校出身從事高薪厚職的人嗎? 好讓自己可以同人講自己仔女有乜嘢乜嘢成就?  還是想孕育出, 培養出 一個可以成就自己, 發揮自我潛能, 找尋到人生的幸福及熱情, 自己要走的道路的人?

有朋友推介:
http://programme.tvb.com/news/newsmagazine/episode/20140306/

2014.03.06 - 不快樂童年

今日睇唔到, 明天上網睇番先


when talking about raising a smart kid or a happy kid, that is my feeling which has been shared with my friends at fb:

"Peer pressure among parents is very serious and seems to be unavoidable. Many parents especially in hk just tend to think about success and think in comparison when it comes to kids. Getting the kid into top-rated schools seems to be everyone's goal. I now just keep reminding myself why I need to raise children- that is to nurture a healthy and happy kid with a family full of love. hopefully i can stick to it."

Yes, I have to stick to it for the sake of my kids~